Welcome
Connect for Purposeful Partnerships
Build lasting relationships without romance
LIFE ISN'T BUILT ALONE
Most apps assume the goal is romance. Millions of people want something else first, a co-homeowner, a life partner without the love story, someone to build real stability with. Heimley matches you by purpose, not chemistry.
partnership goals
You choose what you're actually looking for. Romance is one option among many, never the assumption hiding underneath.
Economic Partner: split the mortgage, plan long-term
Co-Homeowner: buy and build equity together
Pet Co-Parent: share the love and the vet bills
Co-Parent: raise a child as partners
Long-Term Housemate: a stable, lasting living situation
Life Partner: committed, non-romantic
Romantic: only if that's what you want
Casual Dating: no pressure, no assumptions
Queerplatonic (QPR): on your own terms
Best Friend: built to last
Open to Multiple: see where it goes
HOUSING CHANGED WHAT "FIND YOUR PERSON" MEANS
Mortgages need two incomes. Cities priced out the people who keep them running. Aging alone became its own quiet crisis. For a lot of people, the search was never for a soulmate, it was for a trusted teammate, and no one was allowed to say so out loud. Heimley is built for exactly that search.
Matched on what matters
The real questions, asked early
The real questions, asked early
Not on a profile photo. The match is weighted toward what makes a partnership last: financial philosophy (35%), lifestyle compatibility (25%), personality (20%), location (10%), and relationship goals (10%).
The real questions, asked early
The real questions, asked early
The real questions, asked early
Skip "do you want kids?" Ask what people actually live with: Own or rent? Buy in 1 year, 5 years, or never? Target savings rate? Cleanliness level? Night owl or early bird? Guests weekly or rarely? Conflict style? Exit strategy if it ends?
Trust, by design
The real questions, asked early
Trust, by design
Identity verification, optional background and financial checks, and references, so you know who you're really meeting. An Agreement Builder surfaces the hard conversations (equity, chores, privacy, exit clauses) before anyone moves in, then hands off to real attorneys for the paperwork.
We're testing whether this should exist.
Heimley isn't built yet. We're looking for the first people who'd actually use it. Join the waitlist, and we'll ask you what it needs to be.